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Asian Dating white girl in NYC..Harder than you think?

Hey, I am asian and I am interested in dating white girl. That’s just my preference, not a fetish thing..:-) I read other answers and pps usually say SF, NYC, Seattle, big cities would have better chances. Just to let all u know, it’s not. As matter of fact, it’s harder. We still get look at like Aliens. Thanks so much for American Media. Especailly Hollywood. However, I wanted to thanks the openminded white/latino/black/any color girls out there, but unfortuenly, you girls only represent proabably 0.01 of population opinions. Lastly, to all my mixed crowd friends. Peace. Hit me up.

I live in New Jersey and been going into NYC since I was 13. Now I am 24 and been hit on by many women of other ethnicity.

It is true, NYC is a big melting pot. And offers a taste of almost every cutlure in the world.

So don’t worry, if a woman is interested in you, you will know (white women can be more aggressive).

And it doesn’t help to be a little aggressive at times, I was born in Korea so I still hold on to some of my Korean roots. I don’t brag, I don’t act aggressive and stay passive majority of the time. I think white girls (not all) like the guy to make the first move. And if the reaction you get from the woman isn’t something you desire, move on. Plenty of fish in the sea my friend.

I’ve been hit on by asian, white, latin and black, middle eastern women too. Its nice to have a handsome face and good personality.

G’luck friend remember, all girls are different from one another. They just have to find something attractive about you and she will be interested.

Asian Guys Dating White Girls – Are Stereotypes Holding You Back?

Asian guys dating white girls -  Are stereotypes holding you back?Asian guys are short, geeky computer nerds who have no balls. Or we are Kung Fu masters fresh of the boat. The media has been shoving these stereotypes down the troaths of the public for far longer than I care to remember. Being a ‘model minority’ doesn’t help many Asian guys when faced with these stereotypes in the dating game. It’s a load of crock, but it isn’t the end of the world and it certainly doesn’t mean that you can get the women you desire. Read on to find out why.

The worst thing about the stereotypes out of Hollywood are that many Asian men come to accept them. They actually believe that being Asian means being quiet, nerdy and not getting the girl. I’ve seen so many guys who would make great boyfriends just give up and live lives of quiet desperation. Man, that just sucks and it’s no way to live.

I’ve also seen the peer group change in different ways. Some go the whitewashed route and only hang out with white people. Others become very angry and defiant and go the other way and only hang out with other Asians. Both are bad in my opinion if success with women is the goal.

Some things can’t be changed. If you are short then you are not going to grow another 3 inches, but you can change the way you walk. You can learn to walk tall. Plenty of Asian guys I have met are short; and they are very succesful with women.

Being Asian isn’t the end of the world. It isn’t some hurdle to overcome. It’s a background, a culture, a hsitory, something to be proud of. In fact, some of the best ladies men I have ever met are Asian. They have phenomonal success with women and they couldn’t care less about race. Some of them came from really bad situations. When I listen to some of the stuff they went trough, I get a lot of respect for that and the transformation into confident, charming Asian dating superstars that they have done.

In a new, unique product created by Ryker Koh called Asian Dating Superstars, 13 of the worlds top Asian dating coaches come together to answer ALL the questions Asian guys have about how to transform into a confident, attractive Asian man that women love. They all agree that once Asian men realize that they can be very attractive to women, that is when they automatically become confident and attractive to women.

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Asian Dating Questions

OK can someone explain the mindset of some White guys who date Asian girls and at the same time act racist?

My colleague S__ is committed to a Japanese girl but whenever he sees a Black guy with a White girl, it doesn’t really sit easy with him. He can’t help but make stray remarks as if by natural instinct, what gives?

HAHA!!!LOL! This is easy, obviously he’s racist, and believes that blacks are the most inferior race than any other(especially a black male) so when he notices a black man and white woman, he gets ANGRY. I believe that our race is the most hated race by all others, even some blacks hate themselves. He’s not the only one many white people act this way. They can’t stand black male and white female relationships, I think it’s sad how some people can be so hateful.

There are racist people that date outside their race all the time. It’s not unusual, look at George Bush’s brother, he married a Mexican and he is REALLY RACIST.

Asian American Dating – How Asian Guys Can Win The Dating Game

An Asian American man dating a white woman isn’t a common thing, but for some Asian guys, it’s just as normal and easy as dating an Asian girl. Why is that? The dating prospects for Asians in the US  are bleak, unless you happen to be a female. The Asian American dating game seems to be biased against Asian men. Some say that white girls are just not into Asian men and that Asian girls are more into white guys. Others say that Asian men are not interested in white girls (really?). As an Asian American male myself, I have to conclude that most Asian men have very real confidence issues when it comes to dating non-Asian women (and even Asian girls).

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I’ve seen it happen over and over. A small percentage of Asian guys seem to account for 90% of all hookups with non-Asians. Surprisingly, they range from fresh of the boats to third generation MIT students. I don’t think it’s a coincidence. What these guys have in common is unstoppable confidence and how many times have we heard that women like confident men?

Actually, in my experience, being Asian can actually be an advantage. Yeah right? That’s right, it allows me to go in under the radar. I very, very rarely get rejected or shut down when I approach a girl. Let’s get one thing straight though: It’s all mental. If you want different results, then you have to change your method. Most guys don’t want to change. Change can be unpleasant. Some guys will resist change with the classic “I want her to like me for who I am” or “Why can’t I just be myself”. Who am I to tell you not to? I am just trying to help you be the best you can be. Chances are you are not being the charming, suave playboy that you know is inside you. The way you are now is not you. It is you, but it’s not all you. We are all molded by our upbringing, societal expectations and limiting beliefs. You’ve been taught to be one way, now is the time to be taught to be a different way.

The biggest sticking point for most Asian Americans dating is being too shy. White women, American women, do not want a shy guy. A shy guy is not a polite guy, is not a smart, humble guy in their mind, he is just a friend, someone to hitch a ride from. Solution? Be social, learn how to converse with people of all backgrounds. Ask those open ended questions and do listen for the answer. No one really listens anymore. Do you know how other people, girls, feel when you really listen? ‘You’re such a good conversationalist!’, but you only listened! Go out and transform yourself, your degree won’t teach you these things. Your ‘model minority/good student’ role may be holding you back even.

There’s also a lot of Asian guys who are not really shy, but don’t feel comfortable flirting with women outside your race. ‘I don’t care what THEY think anyway’, but you’re not fooling anyone. Deep inside, a lot of guys are a intimidated by white girls.

It’s a shame. The dating scene is easier as an Asian guy in my opinion. We’re smart, educated, humble and respectful. We have family values and a rich culture. It’s all in the head.

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Asian Dating Questions

Do guys think about dating as much as girls do?

I know having a boyfriend or my crush crosses my mind atleast once a day.
Do boys think about dating girls and relationships a lot too?

umm yay, of course i do…i prolly think of them every day….many times a day, just look at this http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlalaP5ZU4s.NbokwMfMAQzsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091221130933AABKmDC

Dating Girls – Sure Fire Techniques on How to Seduce a Girl

Dating girls is a normal, if not essential, part of a guy’s life. Some guys would go on for hours figuring out a way to ask a girl he likes out for coffee or dinner. Guys will not outwardly admit it but a significant part of their everyday lives are consumed by thinking about the girls they like. Consequently, they have a plethora of questions regarding dating girls. Although it may seem like a very easy thing to do, dating girls actually have many subtleties that guys have to realize before actually going out on a date with any girl.

• Dating girls is mostly about first impressions. Girls most likely have their idea of what a guy should be like on a date, and they do not usually take disappointment too well. If you are to go out on a date, you must at least know the most basic things about the girl. Find out what food she likes, or what genre of movies she prefers to watch, or what kind of guys she normally goes out with. This information will greatly help you to prepare for your date. If she is particularly picky with food, choose a restaurant carefully. Consult restaurant guides and reviews if necessary. Also, make sure that you make reservations especially for places that are hard to get into. This will show that you made a real effort for your date.

• To date girls means putting yourself in the position where you have to look and feel confident about yourself. Girls like guys who are self assured without being full of himself. If you are the nervous type, try to focus the conversation on her and her life. However, do not fail to make an impression that you are successful and worthy of her time. Girls do not appreciate their time getting wasted in guys who do not seem to know what they want out of life.

• Being a gentleman will still score you some points. Yes, there are a lot of girls who prefer their guys rugged and aggressive but the good old fashion gentleman act still does the trick.

• Always keep your ego in check. No girl likes an obnoxious guy for a date no matter how good he looks. Girls are generally looking for guys who want to keep the attention on them (girls). Very few girls can stand guys who want all the attention to themselves because this makes them look self absorbed and insecure.

• Never, under any circumstances, oblige a girl to split the check with you. This falls under the gentlemanly, making a good first impression, and no obnoxiousness rule. If the girl suggests that you do split the bill, then you may take her up on it. But even then, still try to convince her that you can take care of the whole thing and that it would be your pleasure doing so. Sometimes, this is a trick that girls like to do to test just how much of a gentleman their dates are.